Iyanla Vanzant

Vanzant appears on the cover of Essence magazine to discuss her job as a spiritual coach and her TV show Iylana: Fix My Life.

Be willing to share all of who you are. So many of us want a partner, but we’re not willing to show all of us. That’s why we have a weave, we’re wearing Spanx and everything is fine. If you’re not willing to let your partner see your cellulite or know your biggest fears, then you aren’t really ready to share yourself.